How do I know if something is wrong?

Every student experiences some changes in daily routine with the transition to college life.  Some of these changes are normal and healthy, but some may signal that an individual may be struggling with a psychological disorder.  Here are some examples:

Behavior Example of normal changes Changes that indicate something might be wrong
Sleep schedule Average bedtime changing from 10pm to 1am and average waking time changing from 6am to 10am; sleeping late on weekends Sleeping more than 10 hrs on average and still feeling tired; difficulty falling asleep or staying asleep; sleeping only a few hours a night; frequent, upsetting nightmares; feeling physically unable to get out of bed
Eating patterns Increase in late-night pizza consumption; complaints that dorm food isn’t very appetizing; only eating things that are readily available and can be eaten quickly Eating secretively; preoccupation with counting calories and only eating the “right” foods; restricting food intake; eating more food in a short period of time than most people could stand to eat; fasting, vomiting, or laxative abuse
Drinking patterns Change from drinking alcohol once a month or not at all to drinking a couple times a month with friends Drinking alcohol more than once a week; getting drunk nearly every time drinking occurs; drinking alone; drinking at unusual times (weekdays, mornings, before class)
Social activity Occasionally not participating in social activities due to schoolwork; occasionally putting off schoolwork to engage in social activities; gradually losing contact with some high school friends Withdrawing from almost all social activities; maintaining few consistent social contacts; feeling highly anxious or uncomfortable in social situations; becoming so involved in social activities that schoolwork is completely neglected; feeling unable to trust others; frequently declining invitations for no particular reason
Changes in mood Becoming anxious and irritable the day before an exam; getting annoyed with roommate’s laundry habits; being upset or crying after doing poorly on an exam Crying or feeling tearful more than 1-2 times a week; persistent feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, or seeing the future as “blank”; feeling irritated by most people; feeling anxious or “on edge” nearly every day; feeling either very good or very bad, but rarely just OK; feeling like your moods change very quickly for little or no reason; lack of interest in previously enjoyable activities
Level of difficulty with schoolwork Finding classes more difficult than in high school; occasionally falling behind in assigned reading; occasionally feeling overwhelmed by course load Becoming so anxious that it becomes difficult to complete assignments; difficulty with tasks that were previously simple (reading, retaining information); feeling like you have to force yourself to do anything (and not just because there’s something fun that you’d rather be doing); difficulty concentrating on assignments or while taking exams

If you think you might be experiencing a psychological disorder

-         Have hope that you will heal.  Most psychological disorders are highly treatable.  With therapy and/or medication, you will not only survive this present illness but recover and eventually thrive.

-         Be kind to yourself.  Do not blame yourself for having a psychological disorder; it is nobody’s fault, and it is not a sign of weakness.

-         Recognize that this is a real, medical illness, and as such, deserves competent medical attention.  You do not have to try to “fix” it by yourself.

-         Consider going to Counseling and Psychological Services (CAPS) to speak with a counselor.  CAPS is located in 3100 in the Michigan Union and is open 8am-5pm on weekdays and offers free, confidential, short-term counseling for all students.  At CAPS, you can make an appointment to see a counselor at a later date (usually within 1-2 weeks) and/or you can request to see the Counselor on Duty, who will see you that same day.  CAPS offers short-term therapy and can also help you find a local therapist and/or psychiatrist, if necessary.  Or, you can check www.mhweb.org, which lists local mental health professionals, their areas of specialization, and insurance coverage information.

-         Educate yourself about psychological disorders.  Here are some useful links:

o       Natl Alliance for the Mentally Ill: www.nami.org       

o       Natl Mental Health Alliance: www.nmha.org

o       Natl Institute of Mental Health: www.nimh.nih.gov    

o       CAPS website: www.umich.edu/~caps

o       Finding Voice confidential email: findingvoice@umich.edu

 


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Finding Voice is an organization of UM students dedicated to providing support, education, advocacy, and a forum for creative expression for individuals impacted by psychological disorders. This information is based on our personal experiences and is not definitive; it is only meant to be an informal guide on responding to mental health concerns from a student perspective. We are not mental health professionals, and this is not a substitute for professional information, nor is it endorsed by UM or any mental health professional. If you have any concerns, please contact a mental health professional. You’re worth it!

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